It all starts when you go back to Nepal after a while and families start pitching in their opinions about YOUR marriage. And there's no looking back. You dont want to marry a guy from Nepal because you think different; you dont want to marry a guy from here because the ones around you are either arrogant (if they have made a little money) or useless (cause they dont know where they're going). The third kind is yet to find. What do you do? I hope a lot of girls using this forum have similar dilemmas...

May be I best represent the true multi-cultural, multi-language and multi-national spirit from my heart...he he he.

i would never married nepali girl.
also nepali gals need to learn how to do oral sex watch some porno girls

I love you very much.
thankyou.

DC_Girl,

By now, I only know 2 things you are looking in a guy.

First, Visionary. Second, Gregarious.

In addition to this I want to know, How do you define Happiness in your life?

For instance, does it come only when you achieve your dream, does it exist all the time, or disappears with your failure.

For me: The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched, and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives.

I am just asking you because you have opened your arms but still tightened your lips.

Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear.
The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can't go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

Y-Yat dude needs a real help..

Whoa! Romanticated, you sound the type I'm looking for...HOT! He he. Dont take me wrong, just kidding (god knows, if you're married, thats it... :)

Anyway. I've never thought of happiness as a packet like most people talk about. I believe there's no one around me who doesnt have a good sense of humor, or who can crack jokes and keep moving during the times of failure. Happiness is not a commodity; it is attached to a human being. It is attached to me, to you, to a third person. I dont have to think about 'what will bring me happiness in life' or who should I marry who'll keep me happy. Exactly like you said- people who make the most out of every moments in their lives are the happiest. Of course I cry, I laugh, I enjoy, I feel sad, I'm sensitive, I'm strong; that is a Human Being. There is no doubt that whoever I marry happiness will be there, with me, and I believe the person who marries me will also have happiness, it is with us, its not somewhere else that you invite or despise.

But it has to be the right choice; if I land up getting married to someone like Y-YAT (who wants oral sex and forces me to watch porno, god forbid :) , then may be I will get sick of him, but chances are that I'll adjust, cause not all decisions are right decisions, and I cant undo what has happened. Thats why so much of thoughts to it.

And by the way, I dont believe such a thing called love exists. Dont want to start a whole lot of another thread, but when this place has become so materialized- (one look and you like that girl, second look and you hate her!), I dont know what to say. But yeah, time and circumstances will decide I guess.

Chill!

DC_Girl,

I know what you mean.

A whole bunch of people come close and the rest is timing and how you grow together. If the timing is wrong, then two people who might otherwise be good together will not work. (This is your sum up of the last thread)

When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us.

Rest is just for you to explain to me (would you? please!),"if" may be God wants us to meet never know when; on my way keep looking. I guess, you got that now.

The best kind of me is the kind you and I sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you and I''ve ever had."

Who knows what happens next. I have no more questions left. Probably one more.

Couldnt help coming to Sajha again.

"Never say a word..." I think you need my company badly :)

I know what you mean. But your 'probably one last question' needs to be said out loud and be heard. :)

I guess I am not getting what you guys are talkin about. Issues are all out of track, like in a chat room. I am out of here. Keep it up guys.

hey gals and gyz. marry for ya happiness. lotsa things happens and in the end u fall back into ya partener's arms. if someone feels for ya go 4 it. friendz and stuff r temp and wife is real. gyz i am going nepal sometime is future to get married to whoever my mother wants to coz my mother's choice gotta be perfect for me. had a long relationship here but was a hell bad. my thing for ya is marry who yr parents want u 2. friendz, my wife should be mine- should have no history of relation tho i have so many.

Hey ramu u r crap conservative bush asslicker dude................i mean u have lots of relation in past and u dont want any with u r wife...............so u want virgin...........man to get virigin u got to be virgin man................u are one hell of a son of a gun...............dont u understand the human being..........i mean we all go through shit part of life.......we make mistakes..........human error is common thing..........mistakes are done so that u wont do it again.............................................................................it is a lesson.........pay some respect to gals man.......she has a feeling too......she is u r life partner not dashi..........
1. for me first there is no point of marriage before 27
2. i dont want to be conservative husband.
3. i want to have kids after 3 yrs
4. if i find the gal which i can say yes, i close my eyes and marry even arrange
5. whatever i do now , i am playboy but after marriage done.
6. my wife will know everything about me.
7. i should know about the wife history as well so there is no confusion in future

Ramu Nepal, a typical nepali dude !!! before u even think of gettin married, learn to respect women!!!

DC_Girl,

Not your company, Silly!. It is your accompany. (just correcting your typo).

I respect Sajha's openness and freedom of speech of others. As a result, my opiniated privacy here in open forum to someone will not stay concelled. Therefore, I gladly invite you to email me at Tale4Tell@yahoo.com . I hope you feel comfortable with this. Enjoyed talking to you virtually about everything. Nice to know you and hope to know you more..................................

c'mon frens, i am clear on who i will marry. it will be my mother's choice as she knows whats gonna be best more than me. i am crystal clear on this. she will choose a good gal akha chimlera biha garchu. amale narmro buhari man paraucha ta. padheko good looking who respects me is what my mother's gonna find for me.

forgot to mention. my gal should be fa myself, no past relationship, homeloving.

DC GURL....
So how many hrs do you work a week ??? to not know what you want to eat and where you want to go and do in in the weekends.... I hope you don't work in a mall like most people in DC area 7 days a week..... as you have claimed.. I suppose you have atleast a BS degree on hand.. and if you were fortunate enough to land a job... I bet you don't work more than 50 hrs a week.. the most.....now let me do the math for you...
7 days in a week
24 hrs a day..
168 hrs in a week
you work 50 hrs a week
you ahve 118 hrs left...
if you sleep atleast 8 hrs a day
you sleep 56 hrs a week
you have 62 hrs to cook, eat, go out, have fun, meet people, use bathroom, makeup time.... I am sorry... you really seem busy...:)

I am not trying to insult you in anyway... I am just surprised that you find cooking a tedious job.. eating a filthy habit... listining to songs.. pain to your ears....
DC GURL.. look around there is lot to look for in life than try to find faults in every man you think is your possible suitor.. like Romanticated states... realtionships (married or unmarried) is not about finding who is perfect, but help them perfect themselves.. it's not about demands all the time.. a lil compromise won't hurt anyone.. its all about give a little.. take a little....and by the way I never said you were looking for a WHITE DUDE.. I don't hate you that much... I don't even know you that well to wish bad luck to you....I wish you all the best in life and happiness all the time to you.... I hope you are watching what you eat..... I am hoping you are atleast 5'5" and about 110 to 115 lbs.. if you want to remain that way... I suggest you watch what you eat...

and last thing..... life is not a TV schedule, that you are always certain what is going to happen in your life... life is full of surprises.. that is the only reason I said I don't know what I want.... I will take whatever comes my way and try to make the best out of it.. If I don't have a Porche.. I will buy a Civic and make it look fast and beat Porche 911 carerra on the tracks.... that is who I am.... and if you are looking for a handsome bloke who looks like brad pitt than you are in for a shock he is married to jennifer anniston... See beauty is just skin deep.... finding that guy is just a dream.... I know you make a lot of money... if you really want Brad Pitt... marry a average dude and take him to plastic surgeon and tell him to make him look like Brad Pitt.... otherwise forget it....
I really don't understand women.. what the hell are you looking for in a man????? atleast give some hint, so .. men can be prepared when a women come looking for a partner.... let me hint you one thing about men.... not all men .. there are some fags too .... see.. we are nice when we first date you.. we do all crazy things to make you think men are really caring. we buy you flowers. take you to dinner. take you to the movies. tell you the nicest things untill you can't stand still but melt.. once we have sex with you... eveything ends.... but if you are nice enough men stick around to get married to you and it is woman's turn.... u start to bitch all the time... Men start to question themselves.. is this the CHIK I was dating for 5 yrs?????? she suddenly changes you don't know her anymore.. she won't be the same.. she becomes your wife and starts to rule your life.... Men get angry, they grapple, they whine, they try to ignore women but can't.. we are stuck with you... you think we men are happy with women bossing around when we get married .. noooooooooo.... I want that chick who used to Blow me everytime we met like Y Yat wants.... I want that chick who used to say yes and agree with me all the time............ But do Men complain........????? NOOOOOOO... we swallow our pride and succumb to your wishes and desire.....

So what the hell are you complaining about........... do u want more men???? if not than take anyone who comes along... someone you think will be compatiable.... NO matter what the guy is .... women wont' rest untill they train their man.... so what's the big deal ---- DC GURL..... now don't tell me you don't want your man the way you want..
all you have to do is hook one up and make him do things..... I AM GIVING YOU THE BIGGEST SECRET OF MEN..... let your man watch TV. play video games and drink beer.. we will do whatever the F@#K you want us to do..... it is simple.. give me sex when you want I will do things for you.... because men don't care what women want... we just want sex and after we ejaculate.. the sex part is over.. go get your DILDO out and vibrate yourself... we will watch.. if we get horny again you are lucky to get poked....

SO DC_GURL do'nt worry be happy and smile.... u will find that man anywhere you look
and NEXT time SAJHA throws a Party in DC let me know.... I will put a better show than that in SHARKS CLUB full of mexican's..... when I got in there I was like wow' so many SAJHA GOERS... later I found out I was in MEXICO... not sajhaland... lame ass party...
throw a cool party.. I will bring you nepali dudes you had never seen in DC.. with all kinds of qualifications for you to choose from...............

from now on I think I will have to make a personel agenda to hook DC_GURL witha DC_DOGG who is cool enough to be her boyfren and later on compaitable enough for her to train to be her husband
PEACE OUT

OG (Original Gorkhali

U R COOL MAN GORKHALI.....................I HAVE BECAME U R FAN...............I AM GONA CALL U GURU JI FROM NOWDAYS........................


U ARE ONE HELL OF A KIND

U GAVE NICE ANSWER TO THAT SMALL KID WHO JUST WENT TO US

" NAPAUNE LE JERI PAYO, CHIYA MA CHOPI KHAYO" BHANKEO NAI DC KTE

ACTUALLY DC DONT STAND FOR WASINGTON, IT STAND FOR DAHAL CHETTRI KT

Well, all I wanna do and be now is free from chains and Loops. From my experience you can be in love with somebody for a while. after that you will feel like what the hell have i done or why have I got into this relationship. In my opinion, the best thing if you can do is to detach yourself from all chains of life and be free. you will have an ultimate satisfaction and pleasure that you are searching for. love does not exists. its just a state of mind.Good Luck DC_Girl, I used to wonder around like you but found the ultimate peace and meaning of life.

FreeUrSpirit

Well, all I wanna do and be now is free from chains and Loops. From my experience you can be in love with somebody for a while. after that you will feel like what the hell have i done or why have I got into this relationship. In my opinion, the best thing if you can do is to detach yourself from all chains of life and be free. you will have an ultimate satisfaction and pleasure that you are searching for. love does not exists. its just a state of mind.Good Luck DC_Girl, I used to wonder around like you but found the ultimate peace and meaning of life.

FreeSpirit

Dayyyuuummm..... A girl in DC looking for a guy in my own damn backyard and I am unaware of it. Holy guacamole, I must be some dimwitted lousy galoot. I kept searching for a girl in DC "batti balera" for past a decade, and I always found either arrogant Nepricans or ignorant New Flights. I wondered if there's a third kind, my kind the alien.

Hey DC_girl. Holler at me. Will ya? ;)