why are all these guys commenting and giving their biased views about nepali girls??? listen all you guys out there, you are no different from any nepali girls, you think nepali girls have attitudes then its your fault to understant it that wa. Nepali are very beautiful, kind, and honest girls. and its just you who behave different with them, that makes you think differernt about girls.
not only nepali girls, but even americans wont like you if you show attitiudes and think you are the most handsome hunk around them. We girls dont like guys who want every girl to treat them special, if we dont like anyone we just wont, no matter how hard you try we wont give a s*** about all those guys, and that is the reason you comment about girls

All of you want us to be a "sati sabitri", and someone who will stay at home and take care of you, and do whatever you say, but things are differnt and america is different, we have lot of things to worry about and boys, relationships are not our priority. We have careers, education, family back home who we need to take care of.
You guys just come and talk to us like you have never seen a girls before, give us a break you all, just change the way you all think about nepali girls....

In case you haven't noticed yet, i apologized for that post. I saw some very stupid responses to mamta and was a little angry.

But if you can't look for the apology, then let me apologize again.

I'm sorry i spoke brashly. I meant to say, I avoid certain kinds of nepalese people who can be classifiable as FOBs.

magdalena,

based on ur definition of FOB as per"2. FOB definition would depend on how a person acted.
========== ITEM 3 Proves that U have a FOB mentality============
3. I have no clue what you do. If you're one of those who drinks and pukes, and smokes pot, and doesn't go to school but is here on a student visa, and is planning a career at walmart, then yes. But I don't know you. I don't know your manners. So I can't tell you if I think you're an FOB.
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See, here is a definition of FOB. ^^ [ based on ur definition #2]

What is wrong with working in WALMART. PERSON is working for MAGDALENA[JESUES]'s sake [ DAN BROWN CONSIDERS MAGDALENA to be MIRROR IMAGE OF JESUES]. that individual is not stealing/robbing. Having a job in walmart or as a sweeper IN UR OPINION is NOT WORTHY. [ SO U BELONG TO THE CLASS APPRECIATING JOB CLASS]

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as always what do i know? (o:

hey mamta i m totally agree with ya. :D

magdalena,
i have been reading your comments and wot i dont like about it is how you generalise ppl and how quick you r to dish out judgement on ppl you hardly know... ( forgive me when i take liberty and say ppl u hardly know bcoz u urself told that they were ppl you avoided like a plague and stayed far away frm)....
and as mr thapap ( i m assuming it is a mr) said wot is wrong with ppl working in walmart?? or working as a sweeper or cleaning toilets for a living.. well you urself said that you had so much respect for the working class ppl in nepal.. wot is wrong with the working class ppl in the US or whereever it is that they live??? you are constantly contradicting yourself...
and again you told that FOB ( i dont even know wot that means) are determined by your actions.... if they are then pls stop telling us how posh you are... and how you went to the US .. or wot your mother or father does.... because unlike you my opinions of you are not based on your background... your education or your freinds or where you work or how much money you make.... they are based solely on your opinions on certain issues... and you are entitiled to them as well.. i m just letting you know that i strongly disagree with you on most of them...

thapap:

yeah magdalena made that statement :"if it's a fresh off the boat nepali man, avoid him like the plague" but magdalena gave an example of the behavior before making that statement. so technically it is based on behavior.

Nepalisahila.. do not talk about things if you do not understand their meaning. What I was refering to was that GUYS always TALK crap about girls.. and they always exaggerate and say stuff that is not true. BUT when you finally find YOUR guy.. he wont care about all the bullshit other people SAY. I dont know where the hell you got the idea about screwing all you want till the time you get a man that doesnt care about it. I praise you for your high inefficiency in understanding simple statements and percieving them in a gross distorted way!!

thathap, baz grg, please learn the english language before posting/reading in english.

I said planning a carrer in walmart in addition to all those other things. Not working in walmart to support your education/family.

God, you people are so intellectually superior. you can't even read.

Rhythm,

I didn't get your posting this time, and while I was reading you sounded like you were saying, you don't care what other people bitch about you,... but finally when a nice guy comes, all of it won't matter. I thought you were supporting those girls who feel free to hang out and sleep with everyone. Truely, you sounded like that. I didn't mean to offend you if you meant otherwise.

magdalena...
since my native tongue unlike yours is not english ... i do apologise if my english is not good enuff for you... well i m in an inferoir standtard compared to you anyway so i guess i do have an excuse for being and acting a bit "PAKHE"....
well since you are so good why dont you give us a lesson.. say for charity...
it will give your enlarged ego a big boost to have taught a few "unpad .. gawar" imbeciles how to speak , read and write as civilised ppl do...
it will be very much appreciated... thankx

WHAT IS THE TRUE MEANING OF F.O.B.

PLEASE EXPLAIN.

mounteverest,,
honestly i havent got a clue wot it means mate..
i guess you like me should wait for the enlightned one to take pity on us and divulge the info to us mere mortals..

fresh off the boat, perhaps?

magdelena,
of couse the reason i am getting aggravated is because I am, planning my carrear in Walmart.

Yes I DO HAVE DOBLE MASTERS IN ENGINEERING but I am planning my carrear in Walmart like place. I do not see anything wrong with that.

But u do seem to label ppl lyk me FOB. Just because I plan my career in walmartand/or walmart lyk environment doesnot really make me any good or worse.

Does this make sense to you?

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as always i seem to know
even less and (of course)
what doi I know!

Mounteverest,
if i understand correctly,

FOB ==>> as echoes confirmed Fresh Off the Boat.

are people who adhere to all the behaviour/characteristics as aboriginals.

but these are not acceptable values/customs to the "progressive immigrants" from the same place.

Am I making sense here?

I tend to blabber a lot so... (O:

This is quite ridiculous. Ignorant or rather stupid, chauvinistically piggish Nepalese men here in sajha have always tried to demoralize, ridicule Nepalese women as if they belong to their possessions. It is quite clear that these kind of men have yet to evolve into a respectful human beings. If often these men make comments, criticize about the looks of Nepalese women, they whole heartedly trace out living standards and way of living for them too. While they comment on the height, weight or overall looks of Nepalese women, I wonder how aware there are of their own such attributes. And I mean this seriously. We Nepalese men are not the best looking breed of men in the world. And our height is a simple proof that. And still we cannot back that up with our personality as it is very clear by the kind of posts and the arguments we get ourselves into.

And to the generalized comment made by nenesahila about American guys being sick, I would have to stress that in fact I have found more nepali men more sick than Americans. Whenever I take my wife to a Nepalese gathering, all the eyes of the men gaze upon my wife. Acknowledging someone�s presence in the room is one thing, but constantly trying to make eye contact with perverted looks in the face is another. And it makes us very uncomfortable.

So before we judge the Nepalese women let�s try to look in ourselves, and improve and let other people live their lives as they want as long as it does not hurt us.

I THought this ONE was about "JENNIFER Lopez's Movie".... that "Enough is Enough." damn Mamta.

Oh sorry

HOLY MAGDELANE, If I was near you I'd slap you so hard you stuck up $%#&. FOB huh! Iam a god damn FOB, Im definitely fresh off the boat, let me tell you I know my identity, DO YOU? You're nor here neither there. I know biatches like you. You're an actor. Actually we all are actors and life is a stage, but you're a sad actor. So, self conscious all the time. We FOB live it up biatch, we work, we smoke pot, we go to school, we date girls, we live it up in Moderation, while you call your diplomat mummy to figure out what thong you should wear today, so that your anai doesn't look overly big. Tell your dad I said hi and we miss getting shitfaced with him these days.

Keep barking.

All I know is I want a girl just like Magdalena. That's the bottomline. I just had an epiphany. I just realized that the reason I was fighting with Magdalena was because she reminded me of myself. Holy cow.
For all emotional damages I caused you, Magdalena, I am terribly sorry. You and I have similar personalities. You're a sojho keti. I'm a sojho keta. You're pursuing higher education, and I'm a dropout. We are a match made in heaven. Seriously. Think about it. Drop me emails please.

thapap...

i don't think magdalena was saying anything of that sort.....