she's 19, i'm 27. no.. we are not seeing each other... i know her and she knows me too ..damn... she calls me "dai"!!
i dont know what to do.. no one has ever made me feel they way this girl does...i just cant get her out of my mind... and i dont want to ... just dont know what to do..
she' so innocent and vuneravle and lovable and everything nice and sooothing..and i feel i am not good enough for me... not that i feel i am bad or something but i guess its the age that is making me keep myself away from her...
its been about 7-8 months that i was first introduced to hert.... it wasn't love at first sight....... it's so easty to love her but it took time... and now nothing ever ever ever going to change it... i kind of avoided her for a few months...beacuse i thought it's never going to work out for the two of us..but it doesn't seem to work..distance only made my heart grow fonder...and last week when i saw her and talked the usual talk .. hi.. how;re you? loong time no see.....i haven't been able to eat sleep think . and now i know i have to do something about this... i really really have to....... she probably does;nt have the slightest of idea about my feelings..
i need help guys.. what do you think i shoufl do.. is 8 years actually almost 9 years a lot of difference in age?? am i wrong?? what do you tyhink i should do.. i mean i dont want to get iin her way.. she's got 3.5 more years befire she graduates... life sucks... help me out!!!!!

If she 19 and you're 27, you are a hmmm...... Craddle Robber he he he

hehe..

mainhoonna!
DiIdn't you say that you're 27? Why you acting like a confused kid. Be a man and do what you need to do.

yaa.. right!
thankx but no thankx.. i dont need anyone else to come and tell me what i am....... for i know that well..

my name is on third, i feel special there yeaaah!! so wotz yo gon' do? lolll
you shud ask er out eh:P

:D interesting.......waiting for next episode....Good luck to Mainhoonna....

u guys..... gals do love older guys... i guess gals mature faster than guys. plus, witholder guys, they find emotional security.
go for it.. mercury and mainhoona.

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Yeah, Gypsy Orion
It looks like easy to express feelings ..........but.............

तिम्रो मेरो सम्?बन्?ध को अर्?थ खोज्?न मन लाग्?यो
एेना हेरी अाफै सँग प्रश्?न सोध्?न कर लाग्?यो

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nice line, but it's self-defeating. you don't consider yourself worthy of her. kina aina herda aafu kaaam bhayeko bhanthanne? you are beset with fear of rejection. you need to overcome it like mainhoona has...then go for it tiger.

Mercury, you are increasing your strength.. i am glad :)
Man, go and give a shot.
you are on better position than mainhoona..

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Hehe ...........Ashim.........

I think you guys are just making a hypothetical scenario.If so, then well done. I don't have time to read all the postings but I have few words to spare here.

First, how about finiding out if those girls are dating anyone yet? I will be surprised if they aren't dating or looking for anyone? If they don't GOOD signs.

And how about asking them if they wanted to go out with you guys for a dinner/coffe, perhaps to a movie? Hey Mercury how about you bring out the ANA convention thing out and manage some time to spend with her? After all ANA is going to take place in NY (East Coast). Maybe that thing can give you some things to talk about and get into business.

ANd guys GOING TO THE GIRLS and Saying I LOVE YOU right away is the DUMMIEST THING To do in this world. You guys gotta find more about those chicks first. For example, their hobbies/habits/Bfs/good friends etc. Fellas look for the connections. The indirect routes. Dude when girls calls your DAI thats a problem. If you were 2-4 years older then maybe the problem is not that big. But when the age difference is that big.. you have to re-re-think about the situation. Not all of us can be exceptions to Ages.

IF nothing works out look for other options (other girls). But anyways try the things I stated out here. May Good things happen to you. And life is too short to worry about shit$$$ like those. And dude Mainhoonna don't Be stupid thinking "I can wait as long as she wants." Man what if she wants you to wait until she is 25 (or say longer or shorter)? by then you will be looking at the rear mirror of your life... you will be like 33 or around. ANd dude if the chick says "Sorry." then what you gonna do? Hell no, You start thinking about other options right now. The older you get the harder it will be to find chicks. But yeah Ages shouldn't matter. But who knows??

BTW guys should leave younger chicks for younger boys anyways:) Just a joke.
Good luck to you guys (even if its all hypothetical).
Jai Nepal

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ProudNepali,
You gave really great ideas ! I will definitely think abt that.
I don't know abt the case of Mainhoonna but I am not making any hypothetical scenario. I am serious man.....this is true things happening to me. We met in this summer and at that time I was not too serious about this things. So I didn't tell anything.
But I can't wait forever to her. I will adopt other ways as you mentioned and try to find out what is her views towards me then proceed accordingly.
Thanks lot for your great ideas !

GoodLUCK

Hmm... this is really really potential sucidial situation if u don't act now (ain't ty ing to be rude). let me get to the st pt. Here's the scenario, she is 19, u'r 27. So definitely u'r more stable than she is in terms of experience, life, money ev ting. the way u look towards life is definitely makes more reasonable than hers. But u should try to get molded to her ways of thinking like act'g Kool, smoking, drinking, partying with her, get to know her. Don't ever let her feel that u'r senior than her. Let er feel comfortable with u so she knows u'r kinda of her personality that she?s looking for even though its hard to do it espsialy in ur age where responsibility knocks ur brain evry time. Try to get molded in er lifestyle. Give ur best to give er emotional touch espsialy in er ag its not that hard. Try to do sm'ting that shows u care of her like giving her carride (especially that works if u lib in midwest),gving b'day gift, n just be ready 24/7 to help er out with assignments, suggestions, or any favor she wants from u. Just be kool. Dn't be in hurry. Allow urself time from 4-6months. She'll know that u had feeling for her. She won't reject u 'cause during teenage they are full of emotions. It wont be hard for u to win her heart.
C u'r not in that bad situation either. What if she is 23-25, it can be worst case scenario 'cause by then she won't need much help from u just 'cause she would be independent, knows everything of life, can do evth?g by herself. She won't need u to help her. She might have her own pespective which mightn't click with urs. She might be less emotional. There can be problems( unless u'r Tom cruise or Brad prit 'at she'll fall upon u anway). So just go ahead n work on it. PYASA KUWA KE PASS JATA HE KUWA PYASA KE PASS NAI ATA. Pretend to be laid back n she'll be urs. Good luck!!

hya MANCHHE ! BACHHA-HARU sanga pani PACHHI lagni ho ta. SAPANA-MATRAI DEKHNI HO BHANE, PREM-KO, ta thikai chha. Hoina, GHAR-BASAUNE sur chha bhane, 22 tira-ki thikka hunchha. 5 barsako farkar, SANSAR DEKHEKI PANI, BUJHEKI PANI, romance pani hune, chhoro pani hune tyo bhanda ke chhaeeyo. KASTO LAYO, BRODA lai mero suggestion?? padiyo bhane, reply garam la??

thankx to all of you again... from the bottom of my heart..... i'm so glad i shared what has been within me for a long time but could never dare to tell anyone.. you guys rock!! and sajha is a great place...
i am definetly going to do what you all have encouraged me to... it'll take some time forme... i want her to get to know me better first as most of you have suggesested me to... maybe a couple casual rides or lunch together with her will tell me where to proceed from there..i've been chewing my head off thiking how to go about that move.. i mean how do i like just call her up out of nowhere and ask her to like come join me for a meal..??? and guys.. the good news is i added her on the msn!! yahoo... but havent met her... she's having her exams i beleive... i hope she does well :)

Damn Dude,
Are you seriously thinking about dating 19 year old girl???..That be funny dude..She probably looks like your daughter..Top of that you don't even have guts to call her..shit man..Rather you're adding her in msn...Get a life dude...

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The other way around.
I'm 19, She's 27
Works great!!

Hahahahaha. LMAO. Ek sa ek chan yaha. La majja ayooooo. ::::)))))))

Ajai mainhoona le, "I dont want to take away the wings of this cute little girl" re. LMAO. La la uccha bichar cha. Hahahahah. :).

I almost thought of compiling all the hilarious phrases, suggestions and what not. Then, I realized it would take me forever. But my sincere thanks to all the sajhaities for making me laugh out loud.

Just wanted to shove my 2 cents as well. . .

First, I hate this - girls making dai sai and guys going for didi baini banaune shit. I mean just saying it for the sake of saying it. If one really feels that way towards the other person, then it is understandable. Natra I do not buy that shit!

That said, let me as well place my disclaimer - it is just my personal opinion. Nothing more.