ok i fell in love with one Israli girl but i have a wife in nepal>>>>> we have been married fo 3 years...and i came to states.....and the israli girl is pregnant..... i am confused ..she doesnot want to abort the baby...... i cant start a new life with her because i think i love my wife and she has been waiting for me..... i feel like i am a reaaly bad person...any suggestions...

@magorkhe  @jantare

you are probably  right because i just love  these two girls.........and only reason i fell in love with another girl is because my wife was in nepal.................when i talk to these girls...oh my god it looks like they are really really nice person and i dont want to break their heart..............................
@ champ

wow choosing .... but what about my wife the one who sacrificed her 3- 4 yrs of life living in my house waiting for her husband.....


Should i stay with the one whom i am so happy or just sacrifice >.......

 Dude, You made your life interesting. Now, Enjoy it being careful. Don't hate the player, hate the game. 

@sanju baba

yea she is pretty much excited to know about all the nepalese culture and stuffs........and she has actually started speaking little bit of broken nepali........

but at the same time i think about my wife..... staying cool and patient without loosing the hope of  her husband will eventually come to nepal and make her happy..............

Jalan Bro,

Your story resembles with my fren's story.  My fren had a gf in Nepal and he fell in love with a brazilian woman.  Now he is confused since he loves both woman.  It is very hard for him since he cannot break the heart of any woman.  I told him to tell the truth to both women and bear the consequences.  

It is easy to blame a guy but you never know when you land up in a f**ked up situation. That's why I never believe in long distance relationship.  Physical proximity is very important to build and nuture a relationship.  One can talk about ram sita lila but in real life such lila does not work.  My best wishes to you, bro.
 

Common man,

First of all you dont love both of them. It was a sexual attraction towards this Isreali women, thats all. speaking little bit nepal menas nothing. 
In US it is not considered that bad if you leave a gal, even though you have  ababy with her. Society here is like that.
Whereas In Neapl, Life of your wife will be like hell. Once you inform your parrent about it. they will ask her to go somehere else( because of the property). 
1. Your wife in Nepal working ?
2. She is leaving in " maiti" or with your parrents? Once you inform your parrent about it. they will ask her to go somehere else (because of the property). 
3. Your life in Nepal now has the right to ask 50% of your "ansa". If you decided to divorce her. This is by law..( I know, I know you dont want to give her that much.)
4.Dont make life of a women a hell because of your sexual pleasure. If you decided to stay with you israeli gal. Give Nepali wife half of your "Ansa" She will probably able to find a guy in Nepal. 
5. You brain is full of $hit, if someone try to speak some nepali, you are happy, try to learn nepali culture , you are happy , thats all non sense, you are behaving like a child. If you like Nepal culture that much you should why you betrayed your  wife in first hand.
6. Most probably you like the body of Israli women, like sex thats all 

7. When you were having fun with Israeli women you never came and ask  for advice in sajha , now you are in deep $shit you want our advice. It is  your personal problem of your own making because of your immature behavior.Didnt you know it could be a problem later in life while making her pregenent? You should have thought about all those things before running after a pu$$y.

when you 're playing with the snow do wear the "gloves"  or this happens ....well sorry about situation and i don't 've answer.

 Did she recently get impregnanted? Abortion might be your best option. 

I forgot to mention another solution just for ur sake!! 

If you do think you love ur wife and choose to go back to ur wife: TELL HER TO DO WHATEVER U DID TO HER (cheating of course) JUST TO BE ON THE SAME PAGE .. AND I REALLY HOPE SHE DOES IT TOO. 

PEACE

Some one up mentioned you screwed four lives.
your wife, your gf ,your self and the baby inside israeli girl.

If you leave israeli girl , she will probabaly be able to deal with the situation, but your wife back home may not be.
if you leave israeli girl now, you will screw up her life and the kids life.
if you stay with israeli, you will screw your wife's life and probabaly the family reputation ( if you have any)
if you leave both , you screw up every thing. 
if you force your israeli to abort the kid, she will probabaly start hatin you , and you can ultimately create a distance (assuming she is able to deal with this situation, as most foreigner are)
but keep on mind , depending upon the time of pregnancey, abortion can be a straight murder of you kid ( one with beating heart).

For being an stupid asshole for last few years, you have to make a decision now for which you would be regretting for rest of your life. No matter what you decide ,  there is no such solution for you that will make all of the four lives mentioned above happy with healthy relationships.

I would say , assholes like you should be shot in between your eyes, but that will not solve the situation. Now try to make a decision that will hurt less people. Determine who and how many will get hurt for each kind of decision you make, and the severity. Try hurtin less people and make your own decision.  

Now is the time for you to crush your nuts and go KHASI so that you do'nt impregnate every (probabaly beautiful ) girl you see thinking it is love of your life.

 

 First of all, admit your mistake. Secondly be ready for consequences. 

   Let's look at balance of happyness. Leave your wife. You don't love your wife. I am sure she won't love you either when she comes to know the truth. Sooner or later truth will come out. Tell her truth and divorce her. Make sure she can start her life fresh. If legally she is entitiled to something, open ya heart one last time for her and give it all to her.

  Tell the Israeli women the truth. Marry the Israeli women and have a happy life. Never repeat this mistake again. 

@timimerosathi......@default061  @default061

Yep u guys are right .. and thanks for unvaluable suggestions....................Your suggestions and analogies have given me to think about my shit in a different way.......

Thanks guys......and yes ofcourse i am the guy who deserves bullet in between my eyes... that would be much more better....

 "there is no such solution for you that will make all of the four lives mentioned above happy with healthy relationships".
yep these girls loved me to have a family life with me and neither of them know who really i am.............

I am so sorry for my new baby coming ......and whenever i was having a good time i never thought about that innocent kid

Looks like i am gonna be breaking up to this girl and going back to my wife........since she is stiil waiting for me.......its because my wife will have nowhere to go...........but i am gonna miss this girl a lot alot.....

I never knew this game was gonna go serious like this..... and i am feeling much more fine sharing my problems over here.....

Thank you guys !!

Kill yourself. If you don't want to do that transfer all your property in your wifes name. Before doing that tell her the truth. If she leaves you good if not you are one damn lucky man to get a wife like that. Meanwhile send her money every month. You screwed two womens life. Best solution is to kill yourself.

Hey!! 

So now that you know that it was wrong, think about what can be done rather than what you did.

You can always confess and deal with the consequences or not tell them, and deal with the situation. Either ways you wouldn't have it easy. You cannot have them both, and sooner or later they will come to know.

May be your wife would leave you, or may be not, thats up to her. But I think she deserves to know! and its the same way with the other girl! and besides if you live with a lie, you wouldnt have that piece of mind, your guilt will always kill you within, thats if you regret doing things you did.

Rest is up to you!

Too bad, when you start thinking with your penis, shit like this is bound to happen. too little too late. so here is my two cents, like a khaki wearing scout be prepared. Either way one or both of em will know eventually if you already haven't told them.

Scenario 1:
Your wife will and should leave you once you tell her and assuming she will be pissed and file for divorce, she will more than likely claim for your property and rightfully so she should. Nepalese law favors women in this situation so at the end of the day you will end up losing most of what you own, well maybe not everything you will still have my two cents.

Scenario 2:
You leave/abandon your Israeali gf and your to be child. In time she will find you and claim for child support if not for your property. I am no lawyer or SME and don't know the nuts and bolts regarding how this scenario might play out but  most of what you own might end up going to the lady and the child.  I have heard that Israelis women/men are well trained in combat situation, to make matter worse you might also get your ass kicked. Please take some TIE CONDO lesson for self defense.

What you reap is what you sow.

ok i fell in love with one Nepali boy. but i have a husband who is in states>>>>> we have been married fo 3 years...and he went to states.....and I am not pregnant with my new Nepali lover..... But I have a physical relation. Well it is not sexual. It is relation full of love.i am confused if i can start a new life with this new Nepali guy because i think he loves me more and i love him more than my cheater husband back to states and This Nepali lover of mine  has been waiting for me..... i feel like i am not as bad as my cheater husband...any suggestions?
jalanvsmilan's WIFE

kasto mental haru pani hudo rahecha.. 
aba jalanvsmilan ko budhi rey..
keta bhai kana keti ko kattu ra bra lagauney haruley jastai comment ta nagara kam sey kam...  
bho aba?? 

@bittertruth

thank u bro

 @jalanvsmilan
tero budi le tesari msg post gareko bhaye tero ke decision hunthyo?
nepal ma budi huda huda aru kti sanga love gari bachha huna lagyo bhanna laaj lagdaina talai. besides u r talking about abortion. to kill an unborn child..your own child..shame on u man
ta yeha basera testo nazayaz kaam garna sakcas bhane tero budi le kina garna sakdina..ki aile pani ma mard hoo. maile j gare pani naari le sahanu parca bhanthanis.
let's say what u did your wife have done the same(i wish so).
what would be your decision? the same should be decision of your wife.
k ta maaf garna sakcas afno budi lai yedi tero buko aru kta sanga najayaz sambanda raheca bhane?

@bittertruth
keta bhai kana keti ko kattu ra bra lagauney haruley jasto kaam taile gariraheko chas.
let's say jalanvsmilan ko budi tero baini wa didi raheca. so r u still gonna support your bhena  @jalanvsmilan

sojoketa, kina tero bhena ley tero didi lai tesai garyo rey??