ok i fell in love with one Israli girl but i have a wife in nepal>>>>> we have been married fo 3 years...and i came to states.....and the israli girl is pregnant..... i am confused ..she doesnot want to abort the baby...... i cant start a new life with her because i think i love my wife and she has been waiting for me..... i feel like i am a reaaly bad person...any suggestions...

ok i fell in love with one Nepali boy. but i have a husband who is in states>>>>> we have been married fo 3 years...and he went to states.....and I am not pregnant with my new Nepali lover..... But I have a physical relation. Well it is not sexual. It is relation full of love.i am confused if i can start a new life with this new Nepali guy because i think he loves me more and i love him more than my cheater husband back to states and This Nepali lover of mine  has been waiting for me..... i feel like i am not as bad as my cheater husband...any suggestions?
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kasto mental haru pani hudo rahecha.. 
aba jalanvsmilan ko budhi rey..
keta bhai kana keti ko kattu ra bra lagauney haruley jastai comment ta nagara kam sey kam...  
bho aba?? 

@bittertruth

thank u bro

 @jalanvsmilan
tero budi le tesari msg post gareko bhaye tero ke decision hunthyo?
nepal ma budi huda huda aru kti sanga love gari bachha huna lagyo bhanna laaj lagdaina talai. besides u r talking about abortion. to kill an unborn child..your own child..shame on u man
ta yeha basera testo nazayaz kaam garna sakcas bhane tero budi le kina garna sakdina..ki aile pani ma mard hoo. maile j gare pani naari le sahanu parca bhanthanis.
let's say what u did your wife have done the same(i wish so).
what would be your decision? the same should be decision of your wife.
k ta maaf garna sakcas afno budi lai yedi tero buko aru kta sanga najayaz sambanda raheca bhane?

@bittertruth
keta bhai kana keti ko kattu ra bra lagauney haruley jasto kaam taile gariraheko chas.
let's say jalanvsmilan ko budi tero baini wa didi raheca. so r u still gonna support your bhena  @jalanvsmilan

sojoketa, kina tero bhena ley tero didi lai tesai garyo rey??

I wish kasaiko bainilai wa didilai testo kasaile nagaroon.
@bittertruth : be professional. don't make it personal.
alanvsmilan asked for the suggestion and i gave it. that's it.

K garchass mangale afnai dhangale !! ahaahaa chill ! say all is well !!

 come on guys, cut this guy a slack. everybody deserves to make mistakes. this dude is not the first and not will be the last person to do so. At least he is admitting that he did sth wrong and regretting. 

jalan bro, my suggestion

live your double life, until you get caught. its not gonna be the end of the world. do not even think of abortion. you guys are talking as if it was for you, you would have let go this israeli chick thinking of your wife back home. come on, be realistic. israeli girls are beautiful. hard to resist. 

 In my opinion, every body does that nowadays, have multiple relationship at the same time (even gals). That's the mistake everyone makes. Not trying to be rude but it was just his stupidity to not to care to wear a protection. For now, its already happened, so bro I will suggest you to confess your mistake to both of your women, and the one who truly loves you will be able to forgive you and walk with you forever.

Peace Out.......

Don't generalize the issue. Somebody up above said, "everybody does it." No no and no. Few people do it. There are plenty of people out there who don't cheat and don't want to be cheated on. If his wife decides not to forgive him, that is her right.

bshal bro, what do you mean by "everybody does that nowadays"..lol. Who the hell wants to do that? Afu kubhalo ta jagat kubhalo..wth

Everyone don't do it, I know, but if someone does mistake and comes forward to make it up, he deserves some leniency.
If I were u I would pay the child support and leave the GF or try to abort the child. If she does gets the abortion, live double life for a while then leave her after sometime. You don't have to tell your wife. Everyone has some secrets, its better if you move forward and be honest after learning this lesson.

 i know guys its really easy to say but when it comes to you u will get confuse like really bad......

@goddamn 

your idea is pretty much american style and that makes sense because that will at least let the girl have the baby and its good for two lives ..... however i cant keep this secret from my wife cuz she will eventually know.... i cant tell my wife ...i just cant do that.......

 @sojoketo

well i appreciate your analogy of being somebody else's wife and confessing the situation.... and i analized your analogy and came to the conculsion that if my wife said that he had the secret lover in nepal that would hurt more than this girl saying that she had the secret boyfrend over here...... So from my wife side i cant handle this confession, however, from the girlfren side i wont be that socked......

So now my question is why am i being socked from my wife's confession than my girlfren's confession.?
My wife is thousand miles away ...and the girl is here.........

 

From "My" point of view, A) you, having to cheat on your wife(of 3 years only)..sounds like you aren't yet, sure of your "relationship" with her.  B) you admit that you're in LOVE with this new girl, and have been in a relationship with her for a while..yet, you plan on leaving her too and go back to your wife again! Either you don't know what actually LOVE means, or you just haven't felt the real kind yet! and C) aborting a baby isn't like changing your mind about something...its about somebody's life who already been created inside the person you love(?) 

You really need to think over this matter and make the best choices for all of the parties involved. However, I hope your decisions won't be based on compromises..because in the end, its you, and you might end up screwing up their lives too, in the long run. Ask yourself, what you want...its OK! the blooper's already been done..and there's no point carping over it..all you should think about is 'what now'.
Remember, no matter what decision you'll be making, a heart'll be broken. But, at least be honest and be upfront from now on.

And, my advise to you..when you love, Love with all your heart, not out of sympathy!
Good Luck!

@jalanvssmilan
confess to your wife.
tell her the truth and follow her decision no matter it would be tough.

regarding your gal fren.  let the child come to the world.
marne bela saas ferna garo hunechaina.

 Jalan bro, you messed it up man.....

@ Bittertruth's first reply: "... See if they can co-exist...." It would be funny if Jalan bro 'also' has to co-exist with another husband of his Nepali wife... 

It would hurt you more if your wife cheated than your girlfriend because distance makes her more dear to you.

 Manav bro i mistakenly deleated ur comment Can you write it 1 more time in my post( ufo=gaurav=seeking attention)or something different its ur choice.sorry,my bad.

 so whats the update? what did you end up doing? fill us in..